I was born in Madrid 37 years ago. Before moving to Finland, 5 years ago, I lived in Barcelona. My first son was born there, in a extremely traumatic, non-respected birth that made me realise how much we need to change the way we are born. I decided to educate myself so I could be part of that change. Since I moved to Finland I’ve been an activist for better birth and postpartum specially among the international community living in Helsinki metropolitan area. I believe all human beings are equal and I stand for LTBQI+ rights. My daughter was born in Finland, at home, while my path as family supporter had already started.
Having children changes everything. And I’m not referring to the classic – and stupid, dare I say – “forget about sleeping well forever” comment. The conception of a baby, childbirth and parenting cross all levels of our being.
In this process you deserve all the attention and professional support you feel you need. No, you are not selfish. No, you are not “lacking” anything nor are you less than another person who does not ask for this help.
Every day I strive to: